Sunday, November 21, 2010
To do or not to do!
Right now Im so upset I need to vent because if I don't I will end up doing something that is not nice and I believe in Karma I know she will get her soon but if I do what I want to do Karma will come back to me. I want to do something really bad that I can discuses here just because I don't know who read this and just because I know is bad really bad what I want to do. God please help me not to do it no to get on her level because Im more than whatever she can be. Im a woman a real one. So confused!
Quote of the Day!!!!
Life is not about the people who act true to your face. It's about the people who remain true behind your back.
Friday, November 19, 2010
A man!!!
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you,nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition(or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant tobe.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as youdeserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat afriend. Don't settle.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then heprobably is.Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if hehas more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more, nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.If he cheated with her, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the ending...compromise is a two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage...Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always knows where you are and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother's house.
Never co-sign for a man.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition(or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant tobe.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as youdeserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat afriend. Don't settle.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then heprobably is.Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if hehas more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more, nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.If he cheated with her, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the ending...compromise is a two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage...Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always knows where you are and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother's house.
Never co-sign for a man.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Here is my 100 post :0/ nothing out of ordinary maybe next time when is 200 post and i have at least 20 followers lol enjoy!!!!
Wednesday, November 10, 2010
Tuesday, November 9, 2010
BLUE!!!
IM FEELING SO BLUE TODAY N DONT KNOW WHY.. :0?
I think is just the Holidays are approaching and Im really homesick. I miss my family and friends. I miss how we used to get together and have fun. Sadly here is not the same Thanksgiving is not the same. I miss my daddy's cooking lol. Christmas and New Years are not the same. I miss New Years the most here is so quiet and nothing to do. Time like this I want to go home. :0(
I think is just the Holidays are approaching and Im really homesick. I miss my family and friends. I miss how we used to get together and have fun. Sadly here is not the same Thanksgiving is not the same. I miss my daddy's cooking lol. Christmas and New Years are not the same. I miss New Years the most here is so quiet and nothing to do. Time like this I want to go home. :0(
Monday, November 8, 2010
School
School is driving me "CRAZY" Im so ready to be done...One more semester and I will have my AA!!!! yey!!! ;0)
Saturday, November 6, 2010
Friday, November 5, 2010
Quote of the Day!!!!
I've learned that goodbyes will always hurt,pictures never replace being there, memories good or bad will bring tears,and words can never replace feelings.
Thursday, November 4, 2010
Sore!!!
Well I have work out almost every day this week. The only day I didnt was monday urgh!!! But when I work out I always do intense cardio that like walking 2.5 to 3.0 and put the treadmill on hills starting at 5.0 to the max sometimes the lowest i do is 12.0 and so on. Thats how I have lost my weight but before long time ago before I have my daughter and before I was marry I used to run 2miles every other day. But I stop and I have been scare to run again I try like 6months ago and I couldnt run no more than 3minutes and I was out of breath. So I quit I did I hate quiting but I didnt want to embarrassed my self. Well yesterday I went to the gym with hubby and he run and I was feeling stupid my first minute walking so I started runing and guess what I ran for 20 minutes straight and intense walk for 10 minute. That was great I feel so good!!! Im sore super sore today but next time I will try to run at least 25 minute and I will incresed every week. Good Luck to ME!!!!! 10 more pounds and I will feel super good!!!!
Wednesday, November 3, 2010
Vent
I need to vent!!! OMG this crazy military wife group or how ever u want to call it is crazy. This is a circus and Im not about to join them. I never knew you could hear,see and interact with people like this. I thought the show Army Wife was just fake well no is not. These group, circle or how ever you want to call it is juts like that. They should have call that show "Military Wife." I have been here having this relationship for a hold year now and Im surprise. All I can say is I miss my FRIENDS the one that doesn't used me or criticizes me. The one who accept me the way I am. Right now I feel so confuse and I can even say hurt. You can find anything in this little group of people. Is crazy how people used you all the time. They want you to babysit for them but they never ask if you need some one to babysit for you. They don't ask how much (is not like Im going to charge u) but come on not even $5 for the McDonald that you might have to buy is not like I need the money Im going to tell you "NO is ok" but is just been polite. People just because I don't have a full time job and I have just one child mean that Im 100% available mmm I go to school full time, I have a husband and I have lots of responsibility. Just saying! I like to help but don't abused me because you only call me or remember that I exist just when you need something. Jum!!! Really??!! It is crazy how you see women wearing the rank. Really you not in the military but sometimes I think you are the one who should have joined. I dont care about you rank you can be the wife of the Captain of the base but if you my friend I will say hi to you regardless with who Im with. Stop the been fake your husband is the one the wear the rank no you so I don't care. You can find the fake ones. The one that smile and act like everything is perfect but as soon you turn around you are the subject of conversation. The one that everything is perfect in her own little land but at the end of the day everything is falling apart. Really lets be real for once. The true will set you free. The one that look what you wearing and if it is from Gucci or Prada and how many times you have wear it. Are you serious? MMM we in this little places with no a lot to buy and most likely I will repeat what I wear a millions time. You have the sensitive one the one that assume even before talking to you. I have a life I do stuff and just because I didn't answer you call right when you call me doesn't mean Im mad at you or you did something to me. Is something that it call been busy thats all. Don't over react! It really bother me that you cant understand that I have a husband and a daughter but i respect when yours come home and I don't bother you, but is so easy for you to get mad because I have stuff to do with my husband and I cant spend time with you. Really!!! I respect you why cant you respect me? This places is like a circus waiting to see who is going to join them and I refuse to join. I have my own opinions and my own believes. I have learn how to respect yours respect mine. I cant please every body and understand that my main concern is to please ME!!!! Is crazy and it bother me a lot because sometimes I don't even know how to act. How to color my hair or what to buy or no to buy, what to say or not to say, how to act. I don't like it because thats no been my self. And I hate to be fake Im not a fake person I don't need to be. It bother me a lot because Im used to been free. And sometimes I feel that I cant be free. I cant stop my life for no one but some times I feel I have to here because they watch what you say what you do and every step you do is judge in one way or another and who like to be judge and 99% of the time when people judge you and talk about you is wrong. I cant please no body and I need to be happy I will keep been me and if you can't accept me like that then you can't be my friend!!!!
Monday, November 1, 2010
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