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Friday, July 30, 2010

Closing Cycles by Paulo Coelho

One always has to know when a stage comes to an end. If we insist on staying longer than the necessary time, we lose the happiness and the meaning of the other stages we have to go through.
Closing cycles, shutting doors, ending chapters whatever name we give it, what matters is to leave in the past the moments of life that have finished. Did you lose your job? Has a loving relationship come to an end? Did you leave your parents’ house? Gone to live abroad? Has a long-lasting friendship ended all of a sudden?
You can spend a long time wondering why this has happened. You can tell yourself you won’t take another step until you find out why certain things that were so important and so solid in your life have turned into dust, just like that.But such an attitude will be awfully stressing for everyone involved: your parents, your husband or wife, your friends, your children, your sister, everyone will be finishing chapters, turning over new leaves, getting on with life, and they will all feel bad seeing you at a standstill.
None of us can be in the present and the past at the same time, not even when we try to understand the things that happen to us. What has passed will not return: we cannot for ever be children, late adolescents, sons that feel guilt or rancor towards our parents, lovers who day and night relive an affair with someone who has gone away and has not the least intention of coming back.
Things pass, and the best we can do is to let them really go away. That is why it is so important (however painful it maybe!) to destroy souvenirs, move, give lots of things away to orphanages, sell or donate the books you have at home. Everything in this visible world is a manifestation of the invisible world, of what is going on in our hearts and getting rid of certain memories also means making some room for other memories to take their place.
Let things go. Release them. Detach yourself from them. Nobody plays this life with marked cards, so sometimes we win and sometimes we lose. Do not expect anything in return, do not expect your efforts to be appreciated, your genius to be discovered, your love to be understood. Stop turning on your emotional television to watch the same program over and over again, the one that shows how much you suffered from a certain loss: that is only poisoning you, nothing else.
Nothing is more dangerous than not accepting love relationships that are broken off, work that is promised but there is no starting date, decisions that are always put off waiting for the ideal moment. Before a new chapter is begun, the old one has to be finished: tell yourself that what has passed will never come back. Remember that there was a time when you could live without that thing or that person. Nothing is irreplaceable. A habit is not a need. This may sound so obvious, it may even be difficult, but it is very important.
Closing cycles. Not because of pride, incapacity or arrogance, but simply because that no longer fits your life. Shut the door, change the record, clean the house, shake off the dust. Stop being who you were, and change into who you are.One always has to know when a stage comes to an end. If we insist on staying longer than the necessary time, we lose the happiness and the meaning of the other stages we have to go through.
Closing cycles, shutting doors, ending chapters whatever name we give it, what matters is to leave in the past the moments of life that have finished. Did you lose your job? Has a loving relationship come to an end? Did you leave your parents’ house? Gone to live abroad? Has a long-lasting friendship ended all of a sudden?
You can spend a long time wondering why this has happened. You can tell yourself you won’t take another step until you find out why certain things that were so important and so solid in your life have turned into dust, just like that.
But such an attitude will be awfully stressing for everyone involved: your parents, your husband or wife, your friends, your children, your sister, everyone will be finishing chapters, turning over new leaves, getting on with life, and they will all feel bad seeing you at a standstill.
None of us can be in the present and the past at the same time, not even when we try to understand the things that happen to us. What has passed will not return: we cannot for ever be children, late adolescents, sons that feel guilt or rancor towards our parents, lovers who day and night relive an affair with someone who has gone away and has not the least intention of coming back.
Things pass, and the best we can do is to let them really go away. That is why it is so important (however painful it maybe!) to destroy souvenirs, move, give lots of things away to orphanages, sell or donate the books you have at home. Everything in this visible world is a manifestation of the invisible world, of what is going on in our hearts and getting rid of certain memories also means making some room for other memories to take their place.
Let things go. Release them. Detach yourself from them. Nobody plays this life with marked cards, so sometimes we win and sometimes we lose. Do not expect anything in return, do not expect your efforts to be appreciated, your genius to be discovered, your love to be understood. Stop turning on your emotional television to watch the same program over and over again, the one that shows how much you suffered from a certain loss: that is only poisoning you, nothing else.
Nothing is more dangerous than not accepting love relationships that are broken off, work that is promised but there is no starting date, decisions that are always put off waiting for the ideal moment. Before a new chapter is begun, the old one has to be finished: tell yourself that what has passed will never come back. Remember that there was a time when you could live without that thing or that person. Nothing is irreplaceable. A habit is not a need. This may sound so obvious, it may even be difficult, but it is very important.
Closing cycles. Not because of pride, incapacity or arrogance, but simply because that no longer fits your life. Shut the door, change the record, clean the house, shake off the dust. Stop being who you were, and change into who you are

Thursday, July 29, 2010

A cute one!!!

She say same with this one...Really cute and I also feel that we are sing it to each other (she say that to me lol but is true) God she really knows me lol oxox

My Story

A good friend told me this song remind her of me and hubby and is so true lol I love the song and the lyric!!!! He is telling my story lol ;0) Lenny Kravitz, :"It Ain't Over Till It's Over"

Like the song!!!

Hear the song and i love the lyric!!! is not my style but I LOVE THE SONG!! lol Kellie Pickler-Best days of your Life (Lyrics

Thought of the day!!!

ASKING MY SELF TO MANY QUESTION THAT HAVE A MUTE RESPONSES!!!(what to do??)

Monday, July 26, 2010

SHOULD I

Should I forgive you but dont for get what you did??
or Should I Forgive you and Forget and start all over again??

Sunday, July 25, 2010

I dont know!!!

I seat here and smile like nothing has happend. I talk to you and every one like my heart isnt crying. When the truth is I cant stop thinking about what happend. I cant help my mind to wonder what you did and what you say. You dont know what I think when you touch me or kiss me and at that moment I want to cry, run, scream and tell you that I hate you but some how those words cant come out of my mouth. Some times I want to think that I was dreaming that when I wake up nothing has happend but then somenthing happend and every single thought from that night come back to me and I feel the same pain that I feel every day. I just wonder how you feel? and if you really care?? I wish you could feel how Im feeling but I love you so much that I dont want you to feel the same pain.. I wonder if I have really forgive you or if I will for give you one day? I wonder if Im always going to think of this or one day I would forget that it happend? I don't know what the future holds; If Im leaving or staying. But I only can tell you that I want this feeling to go away......

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

What I want!!!!

When I finsih with my GOAL and I acomplish what Im working hard for I want:

1. A photoshot just for me I want sexy,cute,reto and different pict!!! I want it all!!

2. A Victoria Secret swimsuite yes I want to show my body lol

3. I want to do my belly button piercing again and my tattoos ;0)

I think thats all I want but #1 is the most important one ;0)

Monday, July 19, 2010

Feling SEXY!!!

Well I have been loosing weight yey me lol and working out alot for my secret goal (I will tell u guys soon lol). Well sometimes I feel fat and no attractive and is happening more since all this drama with hubby :0( BUT today I was at the pool someone gave me a great complement I felt so good and sexy ;0) and coming from that person was like WOW 0_o lol. I guess or my sacrifices are paying off... Just want to share it but i wont say what the person say lol thats mine ;0)....Sometime u just have to feel that u still got it!!!! FEELING SEXY TODAY and it FEEL GREAT!!!

Sunday, July 18, 2010

I want this!!!!

I want them both together on my hips!!! What u think??


Im Just Saying!!

"Men cheat bc is in their genes, women cheat bc they got tired of your lies and bull shit" Im just saying!!!! lol

Monday, July 5, 2010

THE MOVIES I WANT TO WATCH!!!

'Letters to Juliet'


JUST WRIGHT -



'Grown Ups'

Saturday, July 3, 2010

BYO-F-C….That’s Bring Your Own *Freaking* Crazy….

Got this from It's just Me, Drazil & Sheniqua she inspired me with every blog ;-)


BYOC is 5 little questions – some funny, some serious – that we answer to get to know each other better and it’s a free blog topic for Fridays when our blog brains are fried before the weekend! Feel free to join us! Post the questions and answers in your own blog!

1. Seeing that it’s a patriotic holiday of sorts I thought of this one: Where were you on September 11th?

Wow I was still in High School and I was in my American History class. We couldnt believe what was going on and afte that school stop and we all watch the tv all day. I still remember the feeling and where I was sitting.

2. What is your idea of fun? If given the chance to skip work/life for an entire day, what would you do? (assume you’d be by yourself)
Fun is sleeping in and going to the pool until it close.lol..getting a mani and a pedi just doing somenthing for me.

3.Some blog questions.

How many blogs do you follow? 26 blogs

Do you read them all or just your faves? yes I do.lol they not that many lol

Do you comment a little, a lot, on all? I try to comment in all of them but I know I dont comment alot lol

Have you ever unfollowed someone because of something they said or you didn’t like their blog? Yes onces

Do you routinely unfollow and why? not all the time but sometimes i go thinking that the blog is about somenthing intresting and then they change or no blog for a long time so i just unfollow.

4. Repeat question. Pick one day and one healthy thing you’ll do for just that day next week. Well I will go to bed no later than 10pm that day is hard for me to go to bed early some times is 4am and im still awake like is 1pm lol so my goal is to go to bed at 9pm no later than 10 so I can wake up early go to the gym and do somenthing fun with my daughter.

SAVE 4TH OF JULY!!!!!!

Fill in the Blank Saturday lol

Got this from Random Rantings

1 - If I could choose my last meal it would be OMG It would be bread it cube stake with rice and black beans and ofcourse some fried plantain..mmmm GOT TO LOVE MY PUERTORICAN FOOD lol

2 - My favorite person to share a meal with is my hubby bc he is not afraid to try new stuff and he loves to eat like me lol

3 - The best meal I’ve ever had was at Mojo Bar-B-Que in Jacksonville FL OMG they have this all meat salad and the croutons are made of cornbread mmm i want one right now lol u cant eat the hold thing by your self lol...

4 - The one food that makes me feel instantly better when I’m having a bad day is Chocolate ICECREAM

5 - My absolute specialty in the kitchen is Shrimp and Spagetti any kind of pasta im really good at it!!!!

6 - The city that has the best food is Fajardo lol is a city in Puerto Rico lol

7 - My favorite healthy snack is Grapefruit.

8 - In my opinion the nationality which has the best food is MEXICAN, Puerto Rican and the ITALIAN I cant pick one lol

9 - If I could learn to cook anything in the world (and be really good at it)The Puertorican Wedding cake Im ok at it but not perfect lol

10 - The most outrageous dessert I’ve ever had was My 1st Puertorican Weeding cake lol it was nasty lol

QUOTE OF THE DAY!!!!!

Our lives are not determined by what happens to us but by how we react to what happens, not by what life brings to us, but by the attitude we bring to life. A positive attitude causes a chain reaction of positive thoughts, events, and outcomes. It is a catalyst, a spark that creates extraordinary results

My Song

Thi is how I feel I dont have to say more.... THIS LOVE IS TAKING ALL OF MY ENERGY!!!!

Friday, July 2, 2010

QUOTES OF THE DAY!!!!!

Anyone can give up, it's the easiest thing in the world to do. But to hold it together when everyone else would understand if you fell apart, that's true strength...

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